How, why, when and in what manner can we best share information and communicate about political realities during this time in the United States? A parish minister of almost thirty years shares some suggestions for friend groups and faith communities.
First and foremost: verify what you are sharing. Is it true? Is it accurate?
Then stop and ask yourself:
Why do I need to share this right now? These are some good reasons…
•Because there is immediate danger to the local community, people we know and care about, or a request for immediate action and physical presence somewhere.
•Because it’s highly likely that the person you are contacting does not know this information and needs to know it. If this is not likely, consider holding off.
•Because you need comfort, prayer, presence. If so, ask! E.g, “This executive order just came in and I need to breathe with someone for a few minutes.” Be sensitive to other people’s anxiety and availability: leave room for them to tell you that this is not a good time.
2. How can we share information without increasing stress? A firehose of news is not productive or helpful.
•Strategize with friend groups how to share information so that there is discretion for all participants about what is being shared (eg disturbing images), that the channel is mute-able, that it is on an encrypted platform, that it never contains incriminating content (even jokes), and that everyone considers their responsibility for tone and intention.
•Refrain from screaming (ALL CAPS).
•Use access to leaders and organizers judiciously. If you are a frequent sharer, consider a weekly round-up. Do not expect a response. Please do not contact leaders and ask, “what’s up?” They will not have time to respond. Visit relevant websites, reliable news outlets and local chat groups. Remember that misinformation flourishes in all of these places, and some of that is intentional.
•Take care of your feelings. Just because friends are making different decisions about how to stay informed, not sharing/posting the same content or any content at all does not mean they don’t care. “Lecturing frightened people is bad praxis.” – someone on Bluesky.
4. “The church should do…” The members and friends in the community are the church! If you have a program idea, see if at least three other people are interested and be prepared to lead it or support it. Then ask us how we can support you by reserving space, figuring out how to structure it, and promoting it.
Remember that chaos and cruelty are the point. Get your sleep, eat regular meals, drink water, touch grass.